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Celebrating Lasting Love

My hubby+I = Old Souls 😉

Deborah J. Brasket

Love Charles_Dana_Gibson_Turning_Tide_1900They say opposites attract. That was true when my husband and I first met. I found in him everything I felt missing in myself—he was strong and brave, adventurous, self-confident, practical, capable, a man of the world. I was shy, timid, uncertain of myself, a romantic, an idealist, inexperienced. I was a senior in High School. He was a marine returning home from two years in Viet Nam. I thought I had found my soul mate, we seemed to complement each other so well, like two halves of a whole, yin and yang.

The truth is, we were just what we needed at the time. This dark, moody often angry young man who could also be so sweet and loving fulfilled a romantic yearning in me to sooth the savaged soul—Beauty and the Beast, after all, had always been my favorite fairy tale. And he was sorely needing the…

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The Tarlabasi Sunday Market

Exotic!!

Katrinka Abroad

There’s this neighborhood you’re not supposed to go to in Istanbul.

It’s poor, full of drug dealers, bums, and (interestingly) the highest concentration of transvestites in the city.

It’s right next to Taksim, and some brave expats take advantage of the cheap housing and swell location—but you shouldn’t live on the ground floor if you don’t want your valuables stolen, and you shouldn’t walk alone at night if you’re a woman.

This neighborhood is called Tarlabasi.

Tarlabasi

Once upon a time, Tarlabasi was actually a wealthy neighborhood of Greeks. When they were driven out of the city in the ‘50’s, the buildings were abandoned and migrants from Eastern Turkey moved in—as did the drug dealers and other squatters. The district’s reputation precedes it—I heard about the necessity to avoid Tarlabasi before I even moved here—and I’m still constantly warned against it.

But there’s one really GREAT reason to go to Tarlabasi:

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Guilt

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 Food.  The very thought of eating something made me sick to my stomach.  Everyone around me, all my sweet family and friends, asking me the same question, “Can I get you something to eat?”  So much had changed in my life instantly, food somehow became not important.  Eating was a burden.  Eating had lost flavor.  Eating became my new enemy.

My life was in shambles and became impossible to put back together.  My daughter was gone and my life felt destroyed.  Not eating created a pain in me and that pain was exactly what I felt in my heart.  If I allowed myself the satisfaction of eating something substantial, it was like I was letting myself off the hook.  Emilie was gone and I wanted to feel that pain.  I wanted to feel it all because it didn’t seem fair if I didn’t.  It didn’t seem fair that I was…

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